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Sacrificing Childhood magic to social media
Opinion | Articles | Peter F Borges | 19-Oct-2024
Imagine a world where the echoes of children’s laughter are replaced by the quiet taps on a smartphone screen. Where once there were scraped knees from climbing trees and chasing friends, now there’s the glow of Instagram and TikTok keeping kids captivated indoors. In just a couple of decades, social media has woven itself into the very fabric of our lives, including our children’s. But at what cost? Is the digital world enriching young lives or stripping away the essence of childhood?
Let's face it: the digital revolution has led kids from the great outdoors to the confines of their own rooms. The physical playgrounds have been swapped for virtual landscapes. This shift might seem harmless at first glance, but the implications are vast. Childhood obesity, disturbed sleep patterns, and a lack of essential motor skills are on the rise. As screens monopolize kids' attention, the cherished act of simply playing outside is becoming a relic of the past.
Social media is rewriting the rules of how friendships are formed and maintained. It pushes children to manage an online image before they’ve even figured out who they are in the real world. This early dive into digital personas can leave essential interpersonal skills underdeveloped. After all, emoticons can’t teach empathy, and 'likes' are poor substitutes for hugs. The art of conversation and the ability to read emotional cues are at risk in a world where communication is often reduced to curated posts and comments.
Every post and picture shared becomes part of a digital tattoo, permanent and public. Many children, still in the process of understanding the concept of privacy, can unknowingly expose themselves to a host of dangers ranging from cyberbullying to more sinister threats like online predators. The privacy they forfeit can haunt them for years, impacting everything from college admissions to job opportunities.
But what about the darker shades of social media's influence? How are the anonymity and vast reach of digital platforms being exploited by those with sinister intentions? The internet can be a playground, but in its shadows lurk online predators who target vulnerable young users for sexual exploitation. How can we teach our children to recognize the difference between genuine friendship and manipulative behavior? And what about cyberbullying? This modern torment allows bullies to hide behind the anonymity of their screens, launching attacks that can follow their victims into their safest spaces—their homes. These threats leave deep emotional scars and call for a dual response: robust support systems for victims and stringent legal frameworks to punish wrongdoers. How can we, as a community, shield our children from these dangers and ensure that their digital experiences are safe and positive?
Perhaps the most disturbing effect of social media is its impact on mental health. Anxiety, depression, and a host of other psychological issues have shown troubling correlations with heavy social media use. The relentless pursuit of online validation can erode self-esteem and amplify insecurities. For many kids, the digital world is a relentless judge they feel they must please, distorting their sense of self-worth and reality.
In the relentless buzz of notifications, where is the silence necessary for daydreams and creativity? Boredom, once the canvas for imaginative play and invention, is now filled with endless feeds of content. Without the space to wander mentally, the creative sparks of childhood are at risk of being snuffed out, replaced by a passive consumption of media.
This isn't a call to ban social media for kids, but a rallying cry for balance. Parents and educators can take the lead by setting boundaries, promoting more offline activities, and ensuring social media does not replace real human connections. Schools can empower young minds with critical digital literacy skills, helping them navigate online spaces safely and responsibly. Meanwhile, policymakers must tighten regulations to protect our youngest users from the darker sides of the digital world.
Social media, with all its marvels, does not have to be a childhood adversary. By fostering an environment where online tools are used responsibly and in moderation, we can preserve the whimsy and wonder of being young. Let’s make sure that when our children log off, a world filled with laughter, adventure, and genuine connections is waiting for them—not just another screen.
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The author is the founder of Human Touch Foundation, and former Chairperson of the Goa State Commission for Protection of Child Rights. He is also a faculty member in School of Social Sciences and Behavioural Studies, Goa University. Views expressed are personal.
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